I went the "turd polish" route at first.
I threw a Super 35 kit in the rear. I ran 35's, 33.5" actual on a 10" rim, for a few years on the Super 35 with 4.88:1 gears.
Stock trans(actualy Randallmans TJ's stock tranny) and t-case gears, stock engine with the only mods being header and exhaust. I beat the heck out of the rear every day on the street. Tried to baby it offroad, but didnt always back off when I should have.
I never broke a shaft. I did munch a R&P set on the street, but that was because the ring gear bolts backed out... I
I finaly bent the housing, actualy I pulled the drivers side weld off the tube and it allowed the tube to "sag".
I got my $ worth out of the super 35, so I cant complain.
If I had to do it again I would. At the time I wanted to wheel with 33-35's, and eventual run 40's... I knew I wasnt ready for 40's so no need for a Dana 60 or better killing ground clearance with small 33-35's.
I am now sitting on a 14 bolt and a front 60, but back then I had no need for the axles.
Going 1tons is going to cost a lot of $, and is only needed for 40"+ tires or 38+ inch tires with a bunch of HP and/or gear reduction. You may want 1 tons even with 37"ers if your heavy on the stupid pedal.
For your average wheeler:
mild gear reduction, say 60-80:1
stockish HP figures
easy on the stupid pedal
for 33-37 inch tires can be done with some mods to the D30 front and D44 rear. Your going to want alloys front and rear and look into getting some 297's cryod May want to truss the D44.
If you know that you are heavy on the gas, have or will have more gearing (90+:1), and/or a boatload of HP on tap... you might want to seriously consider a beefier axle set.